Torrent
In the song of the rushing torrent, Hold on to the joyful assurance: I will become the sea. And this is not a vain supposition; It is absolute humility, because it is the truth. — Rabindranath Tagore
Founder of eShe magazine (eshe.in) and the peacebuilding initiative South Asia Union (southasiaunion.com). Features in and as 'The Unsuitable Girl', in episode 1 of 'Love Storiyaan' on Amazon Prime. Email: aekta@eshe.in
In the song of the rushing torrent, Hold on to the joyful assurance: I will become the sea. And this is not a vain supposition; It is absolute humility, because it is the truth. — Rabindranath Tagore
This Sunday I was on a secret mission — secret only because my parents would disown me if they found out (yes, you may think, ‘why does this grown woman with her own kids need to worry about what her parents think or say’, but I do care and their angry voices boom in my … More A tale of two doggies
A few days ago, I came to the realization that I have been neglecting myself in the daily drudgery of loving everyone else in my life. I was turning into all my own aunts — those Punjabi matrons with bad backs, big bums and wobbly knees, who ended up in the hospital every now and … More Take a little love
A few days ago, I read this question posted by Henrik Edberg on his Positivity Blog, “How will my life look in 5 years if I continue to stay on the same path as now?” I immediately closed my eyes and imagined this, and realised I am okay, I am on the right path. But unconsciously, … More Light of self-awareness
The moon was late and when it did come up, it was faint and hazy above F-Block, like a semi-eaten peach left behind by a disinterested child. I had kept Karva Chauth after eight years but it was only a half-fast, and I followed none of the rules besides that of my heart. I didn’t get … More Moon gazing
I read this excellent post on Tiny Buddha a couple of days ago, and it was so brilliant that I dwelled on it for hours later. The crux of what the author Brad Alexander says is: Once you achieve a significant goal, you will not be the same person you were when you set out … More A divine journey
These days I’m happily occupied in launching the first issue of a women’s magazine that I’ve dreamt about for a long time. The process of finding writers, putting together stories, photo shoots, and designing the whole package thrills me no end. I return home each day feeling joyful, not exhausted, which is a great change … More Creative high
Sometimes I thirst to write a book on parenting. Not about nappy changes and feeding schedules and handling teenage angst, not about the external requirements or the duties of it. But about the internal — what shall I call it — the inner upheaval it brings about in you. No, upheaval is a tame word. … More The alchemy of parenting
A couple of days ago, as I changed into my yoga clothes in my still-dark room early morning, I caught sight of a stream of sunlight streaming in through the window blinds. Sharp and straight it shot, all the way to a little sun on the wall near the floor. Enraptured, I called my partner inside … More A little luxury
In the past few years, September has been a momentous month for me – not always in the good sense. (I’ve had some pretty painful Septembers.) This time, however, I had a really good one. Why? One, because I had a great trip to Italy with a bunch of amazing women. Two, I managed to … More A bookish month
“Why do these Tibetan monks look so happy?” he asked as we drove past a group of tourist-monks gleefully clicking photos on the streets of Chanakyapuri. “There’s a certain liberation to be had when one does not hanker after material growth,” I mused. “They can’t dress any different, they can’t own anything more than what … More Happy drive
I’m travelling out of the country starting tonight, and this morning, I was just thinking to myself, “Hmm, what kind of reading material should I carry along?” Instantly, I recalled a book by Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie, which I’d read on a flight from Delhi to Ahmedabad many years ago, and which had left me … More God in the post
I was wondering to myself one day: “Am I on the right path? Am I doing what I am meant to? Am I fulfilling my potential? What more can I do right now to make my life worthier?” My mind then flew back to these words from the Bhagwad Gita that I’d read recently, of all … More A dose of gyaan
Yesterday, as I sat in bed having my first cup of coffee of the day, after having done all my early-morning chores, I chatted with my daughter who was drying her hair. A bunch of residential students from her school were walking down to the day campus and I used it as an excuse to … More ‘Pehle aap pehle aap’ (first you first you)
This morning, as I sat in a traffic jam, I could not help observing two women arguing violently in the car in front of me. They must have been sisters though they looked very different. Both were screaming into the other’s face. The one in the passenger’s seat, a pretty 20-something, then walked out to … More Anger anger everywhere